Alone

When I was in college, I cannot live with having friends around me because I am always scare of being ALONE. Yep! During those times, I got pretty scared of eating alone, going to class alone, enrolling alone, and going to other places alone. But when I was in fourth year college, I really had to face it. Being alone with no friends around me. I got delayed and majority of my barkada graduated ahead of me. So when I stepped into my last year of being a student, I accepted the fact that I had to do most things, ALONE. It was really awkward the first few weeks. Sitting by yourself, eating by yourself, going to class by yourself and even going to the bathroom by yourself (you know naman girls, always going to the bathroom with someone). But after a few weeks, I pretty much got the hang of it and learned a lot in doing things alone, that being alone at times can give some benefits.

I learned that being alone, it makes me control my time. I can stay in the bathroom and fix myself with feeling dyahe of others waiting for me. I can take my time while eating and enjoy my food. I can study and be focused on what I am doing, I can go to Church and pray and talk to God can be more relaxing and I discovered that going to the movies alone is one of the best things that I have done. Why? Because you understand the whole film. Haha. I am not saying that we should be alone and not be with friends. I just think that it is also healthy to be alone at times.

I found this very nice video that shows that being alone is not a bad idea.